tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5702164315322434502024-03-13T16:37:40.729-04:00Daddy's Little GirlThis blog is for myself mostly. There will be posts of a sexual nature and is for adults only. It is about being a submissive and a baby girl. I am not a freak I am just me.babygirlsneedlove2http://www.blogger.com/profile/02358815622413212276noreply@blogger.comBlogger55125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570216431532243450.post-48116680238971687092012-04-27T15:31:00.011-04:002012-04-27T15:45:41.148-04:00This calls for chocolate at the very least...<b>I don't know how he does it but he does. I blogged yesterday about feeling like I am coming apart at the seams then proceeded to do so lol. I literally seemed to be there for a bit. Everything i touched fell apart. It was one of those days you want to just go back to bed. Even my computer didn't cooperate lol. I thought I lost a important work document. He found it for me. Where would I be without him. I laughed last night and said ok is this day over yet omg don't let me touch anything you might want to keep around. I am a walking disaster today. </b><br />
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<b>I need order and discipline in my life. When I am not getting it for whatever reason I tend to come apart at the seams. That's never good. I really do feel lost and then I finally might have earned a spanking and my back starts to hurt and its not going to happen. I want to cry in frustration how can things be so damn messed up. Then add insult to injury aunt flow comes to visit. I am already feeling needy and pouty and now we add crampy and hormonal. I just plain give up lol. </b></div>babygirlsneedlove2http://www.blogger.com/profile/02358815622413212276noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570216431532243450.post-23078168811857675432012-04-18T08:27:00.000-04:002012-04-18T11:06:53.078-04:00To Stop is easy...to Start again not so much...<b>I stopped blogging for a number of reasons. Mostly it was kids home up my proverbial ass all day long watching my every move. Then it was the winter blues. This isn't to say I stopped being a submissive. I just didn't write because it so wasn't sexy. There was a point where a child was home for 2 weeks almost, whimpering whining sick and that was just when I started my new adventure in quitting smoking. Yes you read that right I quit smoking. Daddy was also sick and smoking way to much so he said he should quit and I said great lets do it. It has been almost 2 months now. No I didn't cheat and I didn't pout or whine. Not a single spanking or punishment doled out it wasn't about that. It was about us both getting healthy so we could start acting like a pair of teenagers lol. </b><br />
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<b>So in a previous blog I mentioned our little hideaway and how it was being abandoned for the winter. Well winter is over spring weather is here and first thing Daddy did was get us back out there where we can be alone and make a little noise or just sit and eat candy and talk about the day... yes you quit smoking you eat everything that isn't nailed down. We both gained a little lol. When you spent so much time smoking you actually realize how much of your day was devoted to it. So we are back on track feeling healthier. I am back to blogging. As this blog was about me my submission and I said at the beginning its not where I am going to whine cry and pout about life. Lets face it life is what happens while you making plans...</b>babygirlsneedlove2http://www.blogger.com/profile/02358815622413212276noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570216431532243450.post-24313510265984701782012-02-08T07:51:00.000-05:002012-02-08T07:51:38.040-05:00Multiple Orgasms...<b>I always say multiple orgasms is God's way of saying sorry for child birth. There is a reason women hit their sexual prime in their 30's. The ole biological clock ticks away. I was just hitting my prime when I met Daddy. He gave me my first real orgasm and my first multiple ones. He is a very attentive lover. There is no selfishness about it. Though I have encouraged him to be a little more selfish. </b><br />
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<b>I remember when we first met. When he would come and spend a week with me. I couldn't get enough. He still teases me about the time he dragged me to the movies and I sat there fidgeting and unable to watch the movie because all I wanted was to get back to the hotel room. He once asked me when he really had me. When I was really his. Was it when he had my eyes rolling back in my head and all I could say was damn. I said damn a lot lol. </b><br />
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<b>So here is the answer. This is when he had me totally. We spent a week at a time together once a month for 3 months straight. The second week he came. He said something or I did. I can't even remember who said what. All I know is I ran. I stomped out and started for home. I was angry and upset. Doing the whole grumbling while I stomped along. I didn't get half way home when I swear I heard his voice in my head. Which only made me more upset. I stopped right there on the sidewalk wondering what to do. Then I surprised myself and turned around and headed back. There I was standing at his door. When he opened it I said I hate you. I hate you for already being inside my head. He made love to me that night softly sweetly and whispered all the things I needed to hear. That was when he had me. That was the moment I was his. </b><br />
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<b>So yes after dealing with uncertainty and idiocy all day. I need a time out. I do appreciate that he allows me this little indulgence. He has suggested its time I schedule a mental health day. Take a day off and spend it just being Daddy's little girl. I am on board with that idea. I sometimes think I need a mental health week. </b>babygirlsneedlove2http://www.blogger.com/profile/02358815622413212276noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570216431532243450.post-91246411485555361082012-02-03T12:37:00.001-05:002012-02-03T12:41:08.560-05:00Angst and stuff<b>I am starting to have doubts. The fear I am not cut out for this as badly as I want it creeps in. Tuesday he beats me good and by Thursday I am crawling out of my skin with angst. I almost feel this internal struggle going on. Why can't I just be the good little submissive. There is like this disconnect though if that's the right way to describe it. I always end up feeling like there is something wrong with me for needing this. It leaves me wanting to cry in frustration when he says well what do you want tell me. He being a man wants the insert tab A into slot B version. Beat me 326 strokes then rub here lol. What I can't seem to express is how I want to feel while he is inserting tab A into slot B. </b><br />
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<b>That's my problem the inability to articulate feelings. I mean lets face it ladies there is a huge difference between ok so you want your ass beat bend over and you been naughty and I am going to punish you. There is whole emotional side to the latter that is what most of us are striving for. So asking for it defeats the purpose on the emotional level. So after what you could only call a tantrum he said he was going to punish me this morning after the kids were gone before work. He said have the belt ready. Now I have that whole Daddy fantasy you know the one where he takes off the belt and you know your gonna get it and you are going to be a begging pleading sobbing mess. Your not gonna just say you sorry but your going to mean it. Honestly that is the one scenario that would elicit the emotional response I was talking about. Now as much as he says I am not communicative on this one I have actually said this would do it for me. This one I hinted at long before we even met. </b><br />
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<b>So that brings us to tie me up Tuesday. OMG can I just say I so needed it. The sexy restraints and the belt and off I was to my happy place. He snuck that dang ginger in which I wasn't expecting at all damn him lol. It really starts of mild but man the building sensation can get overwhelming when a girl gets surprised like that. So now that I have been bound, beaten and destressed I am ready to face another week. </b>babygirlsneedlove2http://www.blogger.com/profile/02358815622413212276noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570216431532243450.post-80061835963273548682012-01-26T16:17:00.000-05:002012-01-26T16:17:59.858-05:00Panties to be or not to be<b>When Daddy and I first got together our dynamic was different. The rule was no panties. Well our dynamic changed and so has this particular rule. Now he not only wants me to wear panties he actually likes buying them for me. He actually just called me while he was out to tell me he bought me new ones. </b><div><b><br />
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</b></div><div><b>We seem to be back on track. I do know a combination of things have kept our focus on other things. I am hoping that we can again find ourselves and again enjoy time together. Daddy has so much on his plate and I sometimes feel I am another chore for him to take care of. Where did the fun go is what I asked him. We are supposed to be having fun at this. We need us time. </b></div><div><b><br />
</b></div><div><b>We have gotten back into it. Daddy has a whole new zeal for it. I am just glad to have him back. We are again talking which everyone knows is the first and most important part of all this. Though I am still having issues asking for what I need. I have been trying. I told him I need more. More what is the question. More hands on. I do love his hands on me. I did ask if we could explore some things. Like I appear to be a pain slut. I would love to delve into that a little more. Apparently I have also developed an appreciation for anal sex. Though I guess I have always secretly wanted more the idea of asking for more made me blush to say the least. Good girls don't do that and mamma raised a good girl here. Apparently good girls can beg for it under the right conditions. When he gets me to that point I am totally his. That's what I need sometimes to just be able to let go and say what I want or beg as the case may be. </b></div><div><b><br />
</b></div><div><b>I think begging is so damn hot. I love it. There is something so erotic about saying please Daddy... and knowing he will gladly oblige me. That's how its been for the last few days. Me just being able to let go and beg for it. So I am back and blogging. Daddy said when I was ready to return to blogland it was up to me. He seemed to like being able to read it and get a little insight into what really goes on in my over active mind. </b></div>babygirlsneedlove2http://www.blogger.com/profile/02358815622413212276noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570216431532243450.post-37955437170118025892011-12-17T14:51:00.000-05:002011-12-17T14:51:22.283-05:00Megan is Missing a review of sorts<b>Well we heard about this movie called "Megan is Missing". The premise is based on actual events. With some poetic licence and adding several cases together. So we saw somewhere someone we knew watched and it freaked them out. So we first went to see the synopsis online. The write up said its a horror movie with some open talk about blow jobs. That there was a rape scene you didn't see anything but her face and his hands. So they made it sound pretty tame honestly. </b><br />
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<b>What was also a little shocking was how openly sexual these 14 year old girls were. How the blow job described was actually in many ways non consensual. This movie made me want to cry. It was pretty horrific. The end was almost to much to take. If you come across this movie its not suitable for children in my opinion. This movie takes TTWD and perverts it and it really shook me up I guess. Which is why I am blogging about it. </b>babygirlsneedlove2http://www.blogger.com/profile/02358815622413212276noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-570216431532243450.post-36499650227872677032011-12-14T12:27:00.001-05:002011-12-14T12:28:45.643-05:00Be careful what you wish for.<b>So I walked around pouting in my last post. Then we talked and I felt better. That was that I figured. So the next morning. I get up business as usual. Still being complacent on the whole grounded thing. When surprise surprise he decided he didn't like complacent. He took the belt to my ass (the belt I thought was safely tucked away in our little hide a way). Then he informed me no blog til I changed my attitude. </b><br />
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</b></div><div><b>Maybe that's my problem not his. Sometimes I hang off his every word. He will say something in passing that will quite honestly make me perk. Then I tend to think about it all day. Then my expectations get the better of me. When it doesn't happen I start to question everything. Well what did I do now to not get what you said you were going to do? I don't remind him cause that actually feels awkward. Did he just get caught up in other things and forget? Was he just kidding with me and I put to much into it. I guess my biggest issue is honestly I don't deal with confusion. It also doesn't help that I don't often communicate my needs with any real clarity either. </b></div><div><b><br />
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